Recommendations, not swiping
We score both sides on age, relocation, children, and language, and only recommend people who could actually fit.
UpPair
Find someone you could actually build a life with
Connecting China and North America. Real profiles. Chat stays on site.
A conversation starter, for everyone
Sending the first message needs a subscription or a conversation starter, regardless of gender. Replying to an existing conversation is always free.
Photos are reviewed
Public photos go into matching only after a person approves them. Incomplete profiles are not shown to others.
Chat stays on the site
Everything is logged. Messages that look like asking for money or WeChat are flagged for review. We don't block them, so they can be investigated.
Starting a conversation needs a subscription or a starter
Regardless of gender, sending the first message after viewing someone's public profile requires a subscription or a purchased conversation starter.
Replying is always free
Once a conversation has started, both sides can reply freely, with no extra charge.